Not caring for masculinity because you've had bad experiences with it is the same as not caring for minority groups because you've had bad experiences with a few of them. It's not a healthy mindset. And I say that as someone who identifies far more with SJWs than I do with mainstream "masculinity".
But mostly, stay off YouTube comments, nothing good can come of it.
what i dont like isnt masculinity perse but individuals whos masculine and feminine side is out out of balance.
what im seeing in a lot of the comments is "i like link being male how dare you try to take that away from me" in fact thats what i see in a lot of anti SJW rhetoric. kinda funny cause i kinda feel like similar childish behaviour is what started the civil war. all i wanted was freedom of choice not to take away what you like.