I never said gender/sexual orientation/whatever is not complex. Of course it is. I'm just saying, personally for me, I look for other personality traits in people.
Being a gay person, I just get slightly irritated when LGBTQ people are attention whores about their orientation and have to let the whole world know about it. I know a LOT of people like this. I get even more irritated when they define themselves solely based upon their orientation, as if this is all they have to offer. I kinda understand why a lot of gay people are flamboyant with the way they act given the history of gays that have had to hide their sexual orientation from everyone at the risk of getting discriminated or hurt. But sometimes when I see a queeny flaming gay at the club strutting by, it's just a huge turn off and it's like... ugh, just stop.
I guess an ideal world for me would be one in which nobody gave a damn about sexual orientation anymore, that gay/bi/straight/tran/genderfuck/queer were all accepted and tolerated in society with attention being focused on other social issues.
my only response to this really is that oppression breeds pride.
and to those that said they need a character they can relate to,how do you think i feel? thats why i prefer characters that are not romantically involved with anyone. also why i was quite miffed with the the ending of wild arms 4.