Anyway, can I ask you guys for some advice?
How do you ask a girl out?
There's someone I really like and I realised I've felt that way for close to two years now. I have a gut feeling that it's mutual, but we only see eachother at events, and attempting a relationship would be difficult, since we live far apart. Yet... I want to try, and that's saying a lot, because I kinda beleive I'm a worthless human being that doesn't deserve normal human relationships and all that. Now, asking itself wouldn't be too difficult, I'll just be my adorkable self. The main question is when I should ask. We're sharing a room (and... probably a bed, because my life is a shitty fanfiction) at the next event, courtesy of her sister. I think she's trying to play matchmaker, but maybe binge-playing Fire Emblem fried my brain (that sister happens to share her name with a certain avatar) and I'm reading into things too much. So, my option are before the event, first, second or third day, or after the event. I don't want to make things awkward...
First, I'll quote these two fine gentlemen:
ya'll are overthinking it. "Hey do you want to go get some coffee/tea/a drink/(Dutch-item-I'm-culturally-unaware-of) after this?" will work (especially if the feeling is reciprocated). Then take her somewhere quiet where the two of you can talk in peace and see what happens. That's it.
If it were me, I'd make the move on the last day of the event. That way you can reminisce about all the cool stuff you did/saw and then pull your own spin on the "Hey, we should hang out more. I could come visit you in your neck of the woods" or something. The worst that can happen is the other person will say "no" and if you're sharing a room, you don't want to share a room for 2 nights with someone who "no'd" you the first night because that would be awkward.
Because I'd suggest a combination of them.
Asking her out, in terms of where to go/what to do, can be super simple as glassjawsh said - don't make it overly complicated. Try to avoid confusing the situation though. By that, I mean properly ask her out, because I suspect you won't want to end the time by wondering whether she thought you asked her out or asked her out
. Let me detour to a personal story as an example...
When I first asked out my now-fiance we'd already been hanging out together for a couple of months and just doing random stuff as friends (but in a maybe-I-like-you-more-than-that sort of way). So when I wanted to ask her on a date, I decided it was best to make it clear that was my intention so we both knew what the score was and to avoid any confusion that might have occurred from her misreading my intentions. If I remember correctly, just as we were parting ways for the day, I said something like: "Hey, I was wondering, how would you feel if the next time we did something together we made it a date?" Fortunately for me, she responded very positively. :)
I'm also on-board with Neal's idea. If you ask her anytime before the last day, things will be super awkward if she doesn't feel the same way and you'll be reminded of it constantly. Ask her sometime during the final day, taking the above advice if you think it will help. But be brave and go for it! Regardless of the outcome it's better than the feeling of regretting you didn't even try.