I play WoW, but I'm not in a raiding guild so, therefore, I pretty much don't raid.
But I'd have to argue with:
I would say that "generally" the creepy ones are the vast, vast minority.
I agree they're in the minority, but not the "vast, vast minority". As someone who plays a female character (and I'm sure you've had this too), if some guys assume you're female they're actually really creepy. They constantly whisper you, want to know what you're doing, won't shut up, etc. Then you tell them you're a guy and you never hear from them again. I've had that kind of thing happen to me a number of times in just the last few months.
I know what people are saying about girls having boyfriends who play though. They do
come as a package deal and it's hugely irritating.