Here's 2 more pennies.
I think what Ashton sees in feminism are those that use it as a pretense for their own Misandry (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misandry)
I do think there are probably plenty of those within the ranks and they are the vocal majority.
The other thing is about divorce. When I was younger, I always thought it was weird that my mom lived in a house and my dad in a crappy apartment.
Later when we moved and I was helping to pack some of my mom's stuff, I found a receipt for her cashing in her child support check.
Lets just say I felt really bad for my dad when I saw the amount. Me and my brother never costed this much and he basically paid for her house.
I lost a lot of respect for my mom at that point because I realized she was just a leech.