All I saw in the article is the more uninterested the guy seemed, the hotter the woman got for him.
Robertson thought this was incredibly romantic. But Becker, a practical-minded man, had not intended the chocolate-giving as a gesture of courtship.
“I wasn’t thinking of anything,” he recalls, “other than the fact that this woman likes chocolates, and I have chocolates.”
He figured she, like the others, probably just saw him as a nice guy to hang around with.
he thought they were just friends.
This man has mastered reverse psychology.