While I suppose I could see outgoing in the warm, bright colors, I also agree that they're a bit full of it. No one who looked at Cindy "didn't realize" exactly what they were doing. Chalking it up to "we're all men" is also pretty weak. The mere fact of their dude-ness makes them incapable of not naturally swerving towards "EVERYONE'S A LAPDANCE!!" territory when making things?
We accidentally sexualized the whole thing.