Ok first of all, Mysidia isn't defacto anything for RPGFan. The initial choice was made in an attempt to avoid a potentially overpopulated server based on choices made by larger communities like Core and Pedia. While that choice turned out to be erroneous due to the bulk of Japanese players and former beta testers slamming Mysidia to pieces; after what we had to go through the first two days of OB, the idea of rerolling anywhere was not popular. You made your server choice based on your friends from Eorzeapedia, not us, so I don't appreciate being criticized for the choice that was made (even though it wasn't effectual). As it stands it's like herding cats on top of the technical issues people have been having to get online.
I've had folks already tell friends they are playing on Mysidia/Gridania from day 1, and for simplicities sake, until server populations stabilize, and they will, migration based on current population trends isn't going to be effective. Since we would like to play with you, I've asked folks who have toons in linkshell on Mysidia/Gridania to roll Uldah on Trabia so they can experience that area/storyline with people we know who are already there.
As it stands, those who have so far have enjoyed Uldah as much or more than Gridania, so chances are we will end up in Trabia anyway.