so my girlfriend has been acting really shy around me lately.wich is strange because she agressively courted me and had to get through some thick emotional walls to do so. also when i first met her i friend zoned her because she is 10 years younger than me. my best guess is that she had both her brothers die in the iraq war and had to develop a manly persona for her mom and her two younger sisters and perhaps being around me has slowly allowed her to shred that and slowly bring back out her true self.