I disagree, rape is a little extreme for that circumstance. I'd compare it more to a young couple's first time having sex, and the inevitable freak out. It's funny to see Superboy as the girl in this case, but it worked. Plus the fact that after they originally broke it off, Superboy stayed the loner for as long as he did, he never stopped caring. Meanwhile Miss Martian had her rebound guy (though a 5 year relationship....wtf) whom she was obviously just using for hot martian x tunafish sex, the moment something bad happened she immediately deads fishface and gets all pathetic. I think the two of them were amazingly meant for each other, as they're both horrible in social situations, Megan the postergirl cheerleader and Connor the ever brooding lone wolf....complete with his wolf and a bike he has dubbed "she" when referring to it. They work for each other...cuz I doubt anyone else would work with either of them. Don't get me wrong, I could see how easily perceived your view of it is, and perhaps it is what the writers were aiming for, but I see it more easily this way.
As for SPOILER TAGS OMG, we both agree....it hit hard. I almost choked back a tear when...
Artemis went to Wally's family and they all broke down, GOD that was a sad moment .
I'm gonna miss this show...especially since tge new teen titans show looks even more silly than the old one, and Beware the Batman looks odd.