I gots me a 2 yr old and a 4 mo. old. The DS is my best friend. I can only play games like Dragon Age when Miles (2 yr old) is not around/sleeping. That being said, Miles really doesn't care too much about games. He's a TV fiend, though, so we limit him to an hour a day.
Yeah, most of the things you liked to do will have to be put on the back burner until your daughter is older. It made me sad for a while, but when you accept it, things get better.
Also, GR: I wonder myself, sometimes. But I really like having two kids. I could certainly go without the crying, but they'll get older and be able to play with each other and take care of me when I'm old and I have to wear the stinky diapers :)